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Moving out for uni pros and cons

Moving out for uni: pros and cons

Uni life
Published 7 Dec, 2021  ·  6-minute read

The university offer has come, enrolment is completed, now there’s just one thing left to decide – is your teenager moving out of home?

This question is often met with mixed feelings, and understandably so. Making a decision about your daughter or son moving out of home is not quite as straightforward when they’re attending university locally. The list of pros and cons can appear fairly balanced.

Ultimately, the answer to the question depends on your family situation and your teen’s personality. So, we’ve put together a straightforward list of pros and cons for moving out of home for uni, as well as a few questions to discuss with your teen, which will help you both come to a decision.

The pros and cons of moving out of home to go to university

Finances

The big ‘F’. This one is usually the first thing most teens and parents need to consider when contemplating whether moving out of home to attend uni is a viable option. We aren’t going to sugar coat it – the cost of living out of home is high, especially in capital cities, and the income of a tertiary student is usually quite low. Despite this disparity, however, many students still manage to pay rent and bills, work, study and save. It isn’t easy, but it’s doable.

Looking for financial assistance for your teen to attend university? UQ has over 500 scholarships and grants for coursework students. Browse our scholarships to discover what’s available.

Krispy Kreme at UQ

Independence

Independence tends to be the main driving factor behind teens who want to move out of home. Transitioning into adulthood is an exciting time, and many teenagers don’t want to feel as though they’re lagging behind their peers who’ve chosen to leave the nest.

Conversely, some teens may be more reluctant to leave home during a period of big change. Having a stable and familiar home environment may be what they need to cope with these shifts in their everyday life. It may not be so much that they’re scared to move out of home, but just that they need time to settle into university life before they’re ready to go out on their own.

Study environment

Sometimes the excitement of moving out of home and starting a new life can overshadow the actual purpose of relocating – to study at university. It’s important for your teen to think about the kind of study habits they want to develop and the grades they’re aiming for. Where they’re living can have a big impact on their study.

Your teen may choose to keep home and study environments separate – for example, if they live in a crowded share house but utilise the university library for study. Help them carefully consider what kind of environment they need to concentrate, and where they'll be able to create this.

Find out more about the types of student accommodation close to UQ’s St Lucia and Gatton campuses.

Student studying in UQ law library

Relationships

Going to university is a chance to meet new people, try new things and get involved in different social circles. There’s undoubtably more freedom for teens to do this outside of the family home.

Navigating new relationships while living at home can be an uncomfortable and sensitive topic for both you and your teen. Keep an open and transparent dialogue about mutual respect and agree on a set of ground rules for guests. Your teen will need to learn to do this with anyone they live with, so establishing these expectations early will set them up for harmonious share house living when they decide to leave the nest.

You may have concerns about your teen moving out and distancing themselves from the family. These are natural feelings for parents and it can be hard to let go after having your child so close to you for what’s often been their entire life. Keep in mind that distance can make many teens appreciate their family even more.

When is the right time for your teen to move out of home?

Only you and your teen can decide when is the ‘right’ time to leave the nest. They may feel ready now and want to move out of home as soon as possible, or they may feel reluctant to make this big change just yet. We hope discussing all of the above factors has shed some light on the practicalities involved with moving for uni.

Your teenager moving out of home is a big step. Remember to be kind to yourself and to them while making the decision. Milestones like this take careful consideration, and talking openly about it together will make the process smoother.

The transition from high school to uni is another big change in a teenager’s life. Find out how you can help make your teen’s transition a little easier.

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